The most taboo thing in life is perfection. Some people have a bad marriage but excellent children, some have a good marriage but poor health, some have a smooth career but a troubled family, some have a harmonious family but live in poverty. Fortune should not be fully enjoyed, power should not be fully seized, and merit should not be fully coveted. Looking at a person's whole life, when successful, one may enjoy the flowers of Chang'an in a day, but when facing failure, they may be blown by the cold wind in the desolate valley. Not necessarily getting what you desire may not be a regret. Those who are content are happy even in poverty, while those who are not content may worry even in wealth. The best state of life is to seek deficiency rather than fullness. When water is full, it overflows; when the moon is full, it wanes. Moderation is the best state of life.

2. Don't be too good to people who are too low, the lower the cognitive level, the stronger the animal's nature, the more you don't know what to do, the more enthusiastic you are, the more kind you are, the more you respect them, the more they look down on you and bully you, the more you humble them in terms of interests, the more they take it for granted, the more you talk well, he thinks you are good at talking. will always want to take advantage of you, they don't understand the preciousness behind kindness, he will only unconsciously treat you as a weak person and bully you, villains are afraid of power and not morality.
3. Actually, demons are not scary. What's scary is that they appear in front of you in the guise of saving you, doing unreasonable things like an angel. On the surface, it's 'saving,' but in reality, it's 'harming'! Bad people are not scary; what's scary is false goodness, pretending to be kind in front of people and pretending to be a ghost behind them. False sincerity is scarier than demons.
4. Some people ask you to be generous with selfish motives, some pretend to be confused to cover up your grievances, and some stand on their own position and criticize you for not accommodating. Kindness has limits, and concession has boundaries. When any relationship fails to consider your feelings and interests, please cut your losses in time. If kindness doesn't bloom, let it grow thorns. From now on, I will not be a good person or a bad person. I will be a mirror. If you are harsh to me, how can I dare to be kind.