The highest form of love is a spiritual enjoyment.

The current relationship between the sexes is actually fragmented; men fear women for their materialism, while women fear men for their bad behavior. However, both sides genuinely crave sincere emotions. For most people, dating feels like it's better to be single than to be with someone. But a true romantic relationship is top-notch, and more about spiritual alignment.

The true spiritual connection begins with the ability to "see." It is not about seeing each other's social labels or material conditions, but rather being able to penetrate the surface and understand the vulnerabilities and expectations hidden behind each other's words and actions. It's like two souls in conversation: what you say is nuanced, and he can grasp it; the struggles he hasn't voiced, you can sense. This feeling of being completely understood is more reassuring than any material gift.

It also carries a kind of "symbiotic" growth. It is not one party dependent on the other, nor is it a mutual consumption, but rather like two trees standing side by side, their roots intertwining underground while their branches and leaves extend towards the sky. You will have more courage to explore the unknown parts of yourselves because of each other's presence—perhaps he encourages you to pick up a long-neglected hobby, and you push him to face issues he has been avoiding. This power of mutual support enables both individuals to become better versions of themselves, rather than losing themselves in the relationship.

Furthermore, it can dissolve loneliness. Humans are essentially lonely individuals, and sincere feelings act as a bridge between two lonely islands. You can share your most intimate thoughts, even those ideas that are not understood by the world, and find acceptance in each other.

This sense of relaxation of "I don't have to pretend, and you don't have to please" makes people feel that, in fact, "two people" can really be more at ease than "one person."

Therefore, we should talk about a top-level spiritual love, rather than a superficial love. It's not easy to meet someone you like, so we should both make an effort to become better versions of ourselves. Even if one day we part ways, we will still be a light in each other's lives.